Comparison is a killer. It kills our sense of well being. It kills our happiness. Mostly, it kills our joy.
I know some people and some circumstances may make us lean that way more, but it’s not worth it. Those people and those circumstances are not worth it. Our mind and heart deserve better. There can be transformation in how we think and that leads to transformation in how we feel. You just have to tell yourself that you’re worth it even when no-one else does.
I so often struggle to take this advice, but when I do, I’m better for it.